Advice by Kitty #4

Advice by Kitty, #4! You know the drill, let's get going!

Dear Kitty,

I have had a lot of fake friendships. One of them, my friend and I made up. But she doesn’t know how I feel about the past. I wrote her a letter, but I don't know if I want to send it to her. It might ruin our friendship again. What do you think I could do to make her more aware of  what happened and how I felt?

                                                                                                                           -This or That

Dear This or That,

Let me get one thing straight: If you don’t feel comfortable around a person,THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIEND. Give her the letter, and if she reacts in a bad way, she’s not a true friend. If you’re not sure you can be totally honest with her, don’t stay her “friend.” If you already know that your friendship was fake, why hold on? It’s not easy, but it will be worth it in the end. Do your best to make new friends, but in the end, being a little lonely beats hanging out with a person you have to hide things from. Just remember, your friends do not make who you are. You can be a good person without a lot of friends. Good luck, and stay strong!

                                                                                                                             As Always,

                                                                                                                                 Kitty