RANDOM STUFF#3

 Hello my readers! You know, most of my post nowadays are about advice, so… RANDOM STUFF!!! Yay!!!!!!

  Have you ever realized that if you have a best friend, you can’t ever imagine living without them? Well the reality is that you’ll either stay BFFs 4 life, or break up or have to separate. Isn't it sad? The good thing is that you’ll find more friends, and life will go on as usual. It’s not all bad, so just keep your head up and be yourself.

Advice by Kitty #4

Advice by Kitty, #4! You know the drill, let's get going!

Dear Kitty,

I have had a lot of fake friendships. One of them, my friend and I made up. But she doesn’t know how I feel about the past. I wrote her a letter, but I don't know if I want to send it to her. It might ruin our friendship again. What do you think I could do to make her more aware of  what happened and how I felt?

                                                                                                                           -This or That

Dear This or That,

Let me get one thing straight: If you don’t feel comfortable around a person,THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIEND. Give her the letter, and if she reacts in a bad way, she’s not a true friend. If you’re not sure you can be totally honest with her, don’t stay her “friend.” If you already know that your friendship was fake, why hold on? It’s not easy, but it will be worth it in the end. Do your best to make new friends, but in the end, being a little lonely beats hanging out with a person you have to hide things from. Just remember, your friends do not make who you are. You can be a good person without a lot of friends. Good luck, and stay strong!

                                                                                                                             As Always,

                                                                                                                                 Kitty

Advice by Kitty #3

Hello all my readers! It's been a super long time since I got to posting, so... HERE YOU GO!

Dear Kitty,

My friend has been really mean to me. I have one friend (let's say her name is Sasha and the other one is Minerva) Sasha is my best friend and Minerva just wiggled and became our friend. Suddenly, Sasha and I were talking about something and Minerva just pushed me aside and started talking to Sasha. I try to be nice and I joke about Minerva and then she starts insulting me like nobody's business. She always makes me sad, but I don't want to the Sasha, but it's like Minerva is bullying me: What do I do? (Sorry if this is too long... :P)

Dear Unsure Otaku,

This is another tough situation you just have to make a decision about. First, there is no reason why you shouldn’t tell your friend that you’re not feeling right about someone, especially if you feel that you’re being bullied. TELL SASHA! PERIOD. (Easier said than done.) If she seems oblivious, do your best to tell her in a subtle, not pushy way. And do your best not to joke ABOUT Minerva to her face. If you want things to patch up, try to do your best to keep a mellow relationship between yourselves. If Minerva seems to be insulting you because she thinks you might be teasing her, STOP. It’ll only make things worse. If Sasha takes Minerva’s side and they both turn against you, the best solution is to just disconnect your friendship and make new friends. Be social, talk to other people. It’s no use hanging on to friends who’ll just make your life miserable. Good luck, bad friendships and relationships are just a part of life, you’ll get over it over time!

As always,

                                                                                                                                    -Kitty